My mom told me to change?

my family is amazingly just as dis-functional as yours! i am actually going to n c on vacation too and i have to babysit my little cousins for a whole week. and that's considered my vacation. if i were yo i wouldn't do all of the stuff your mom asks of you just say "i don't want to pretend to be some one im not" also your mom seems really prejudiced against people who are different, and i hope you never get that way. also siblings can be very supportive, if you have any