Thursday, August 11, 2011
Serious Relationship help: Help when getting back together?? Steps to take?
My girlfriend and I were together for 2 years. She needed some space, so we called for a break, in hope we can make this work together. We ended up breaking up, not on bad terms at all though. We just spent time with ourselves, family and occaisionally friends. Its been 2 months of no physical contact, just occaissional texting, but not all lovey dovey. After about the first month, with clearer minds, we were able to communicate much deeper than we had ever. Things have been looking up lately, she would start to text me things like sweetie, hun, honey.. etc. and texting all day like before. The separation taught her how much she can miss me, how much she does miss me, and how much she genuinely loves me. The time apart just got to her. At first it were hard for me, but as the two months went by, I started to grow more independently for myself and also for our friendship/relationship, what were to come between us. We both have had a deep talk, and we both agree that we want to be together, and work towards us, so we can have days of fun together like we shared in our past, and also, friends and family gatherings. We just both want everything back. Its been so long, that she just doesnt know where to begin, and I understand that. I suggested that the only first step to do is just hangout together, something we can really connect with eachother without pushing too hard too fast. We want to do whatever it will take to get us back on track, but how can we go about this?? what kind of steps should we take?? We both genuinely love eachother, and are in this for the longhaul. We fit great together, and are in our mid twenties. What can help us continue what we had?? Or what can help us continue to grow together again? Please and thank you for your help and advice.
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